In informal speech, continuous and simple are often used when telling stories and jokes.
Some verbs have different meanings depending on the tense in which they are used.
simple when reporting a state, continuous when reporting an action.
Example;
We can use continuous in mood verbs to emphasize that we are just starting to think about something or that we are not sure about something.
Example;
The verb consider is used with continuous when it means carefully think about.
The following verbs are not usually used with continuous.
Verbs that perform the actions they describe are usually used with simple.
acknowledge, admit, advise, apologise, beg, confess, congratulate, declare, deny, forbid, guarantee, name, order, permit, predict, promise, refuse, remind, request, thank, warn
Modals can be made more polite by using them together with performatives.
Taken from UCH Wiki. https://wiki.ulascemh.com/doku.php?id=en:en:grammar:continuousvssimple